The distance between where I was but a week ago and where I am right now feels like across the universe. As I meet situations head on and leave reticence aside for others to calculate I am finding that my ruminating about the subjects becoming virtually pain free and I have been able to leave taking responsibility to those that own it in the first place. I have so often looked for my culpability in every scenario. I always find myself at fault in some way whether it is the proximating cause or specifically the cause. And as I am discovering I have been overcompensating way too often. I will of course take responsibility when I could have generated better results or I am engaged in mental or physical lethargy. This new course will change my thought process and give me more time to focus on what’s really important and not what actions those that could have acted on their own recognizance.
I'm not quite sure whether it is naivete or arrogance that leads you to believe you have such and astounding influence on the lives of others. You certainly do have some persuasive qualities but they too have free will. All reasonably intelligent adults are responsible for their own choices.
ReplyDeleteI am not sure you read what I wrote. I never think that I have "astounding" influence over anyone. I influence but it can hardly be called astounding. And this is my "inside job" it has to nothing to do with the free will of others. Where are you reading that in what I wrote and who is this? What is reasonably intelligent? That is so open for speculation and the worst thing judgment.
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