It is a yet another New Year and I make the following resolutions. I will not sublimate my feelings because someone else needs me to or cannot be exposed to them. If they have chosen me to live with there will be reciprocity and that I am determined to make clear.
I am going to try and define exactly what my boundaries are. I will simply ask the question to my three guides as to exactly what they are and then build a fence with guards around it.
I am not going to conform to any standard that is unwritten. If I am not injuring another, as I will always consider another’s feelings anyway I will make sure that I am satisfied first and then work outward for those around me and their satisfaction. The reverse only leaves me with resentment and quite confused as to exactly what I want.
This journaling I have started I need to continue and make a habit just as I shower and keep my body fastidiously clean, I am going to wash my brain and care less about what others think of me and more of what I think of me.
To be continued…..
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